Monthly Archives: March 2011

Food is Love in three chapters…

Food is Love in three chapters…

The problem with blogging is not what to write but rather which thing to write about!  I was searching for a recipe last weekend and the result was this “still life”.  I said to myself.. now THAT would make a good blog post!  My intention was to write about the cookbooks but then I thought perhaps you’d like to hear about my refrigerator adventures or the decoupage of photos on the freezer door.  Oh the dilemmas of a blogger…

Thus.. the three chapter essay.

Let’s begin with the cookbooks, shall we?  Glancing over my collection I see the layers of my life as chief cook and bottle washer  displayed in 3D living color.  There’s Laurel’s Kitchen which heralded my natural food cooking era of motherhood and gave me the name “wheat woman”  among my fleet of babysitters.  Hidden from view is Diet for a Small Planet.. the book that heightened my awareness of  how much we feed our cows corn in order to be able to indulge in a juicy steak; corn that could potentially solve the problem of world hunger.  Beard on Pasta was my right hand man when creating my favorite pesto recipe from the plethora of basil that grew in our prolific vegetable garden on Tedemory Drive.

That little black book of Lebanese Cookery (under Beard and on top of Laurel’s Bread Book) was my mother’s.  Not that she EVER looked at a cookbook but I need to once in a while when I want to pick up the phone and call her for a Kibby consult- knowing that she’s unavailable and currently bossing somebody ELSE around in that great Williams-Sonoma kitchen in the sky.  (I can smell the onions for the meatless imjadara frying as we speak- do they have Lent in heaven?)

Horn of the Moon Cookbook, spooned (ah.. double entendre) lovingly with Laurel’s Kitchen and holding up the random food magazine pages ripped out in moments of food lust, was my friend Anita’s favorite cookbook.  We were young stay at home moms together and we loved to cook healthy foods for our families and shop at hippie places like Vitamin Village and Mrs. Gouch’s.  It’s not my favorite cookbook but I think of Anita when I glance through it and our lives in the trenches of raising children.  She relocated with her family to Portland Oregon and since then I purchased the Pacific Northwest Palate which I never use either…perhaps longing for the good old days of our friendship.

Vegetarian Planet leans comfortably against the Joy of Cooking (wedding shower gift.. got that other Joy book too!)  to the far right.  Patrick bought it for his brother, Peter, after Peter’s five month stint in India and conversion to a vegetarian lifestyle.  During the month that Peter stayed with me between life adventures we lifted some interesting dinners from its’ wealth of recipes.  He then moved to the City and Patrick moved to Colorado, leaving me with this souvenir of their manly cooking antics.

Food is love. indeed.  Amen.

Stay tuned for adventures in refrigerator shopping..

Lord have mercy!

Lord have mercy!

So there seems to be some kind of mistake?  Who planned a meatless Lenten Friday to follow a green beered boiled dinner of succulent corned beef and cabbage?  What are we supposed to do with those left overs today?  One would think that God and St. Patrick would work this placement of holidays and fast days out while they are leisurely sitting around in heaven shooting the bull.

And here lies the dilemma…  Last week I made a meatloaf on Thursday and couldn’t eat the left overs on Friday.  In the faculty room at Presentation High School we had a discussion about what is worse.  Eating the meat on Friday in order to not be wasteful or throwing it out and breaking out the good ol’ frozen fish sticks- reminiscent of our Catholic growing up years? Which is the bigger sin?

We decided that the tension of this discussion is all about awareness.  Awareness of our eating habits as Americans in general- our abundance, our waste and our over concern about our waistlines. Hoping we can work all this out in the lunchroom for the next several weeks of Lent.

Any non-Catholics out there interested in some leftover Corned Beef and Cabbage?  Gonna put on my hair-shirt and open a can of tuna for dinner tonight. I’ll pray for you.

“You are dust and unto dust you shall return”

“You are dust and unto dust you shall return”

We are well into Lent- the Catholic season of  40 days and 40 nights before Jesus is raised from the dead on Easter Sunday.  This picture was taken on Ash Wednesday when we celebrated Mass as a school community and learned some important lessons about what it means to be generous and to have gratitude. But mostly we took away foreheads full of ashes in remembrance of our physical bodies having their origin and their destiny in dirt.  You heard me.  Dirt.

Such disparity in this photo!  These young women, so young and beautiful with their bright smiles and hope for the future; their willingness to learn and grow and connect with life!  Their hopeful faces smudged with ashes…

I want to tell them some secrets about life but they will need to learn those on their own at the school of hard knocks.   But today I want them to know that they are perfect in every way.  And that they are loved beyond belief by their parents and by their God.  And that no one can take that away from them.

Don’t ever let anyone tell you otherwise.  Be the beautiful young women that you are and guard this treasure.  That is my Lenten prayer for you.  Fresh faces and ashes.  Amen

Honey, these are the best years of your life!

Honey, these are the best years of your life!

Peter, Robert, and Patrick

It is a lazy afternoon in Whittier, California and I am across the street on Tedemory Drive visiting with my neighbor, Mrs. Jenner.  She has successfully raised her two sons to responsible adulthood.  I stand with my right hip jutting out in a heralding of chiropractic visits yet to come- balancing chubby Peter.  Patrick is clenched on to my right thigh and out of my peripheral vision I focus on Robert scaling a nearby tree.

“Oh Honey!  Treasure this time!  These are the best years of your life!”  my dear neighbor advises.  I’m sure I looked at her as though she had four eyes.  I was a tired, overworked young mom with half read books and have baked friendships.  I couldn’t seem to focus on anything in those days besides watching little boys for hours and hours on end.  I was thinking more along the lines of “These are the days that try men’s souls!”

But I must admit that on this particular afternoon my heart took a picture.  Three little boys playing in their Mervyn’s finest- challenging the neighbor children across the street to a water fight.  On this day I wanted nothing more than this moment being this mom to these three little munchkins.  Life was good and there was no where else I wanted to be than on the other side of this camera.

You shoot from the hip, Rosemarie! That’s what gets you in trouble!

You shoot from the hip, Rosemarie! That’s what gets you in trouble!

There’s no way to begin except to just do it.  For a woman who is never speechless I seem to be unable to get going on this blog thing.  So here goes nothing!

I am  a straight shooter.  My son, Patrick, likes to remind me to “filter, mom”.  I know.  Sometimes my thoughts sneak out of my mouth without due diligence to my frontal lobes.  My boss at Presentation told me in a recent meeting that I shoot from the hip and that’s what gets me in trouble.  I immediately thought (but held my mouth closed) “Which hip, Mary?  My real one or my ceramic one?”  Had she forgotten that I had my right hip replaced this last summer?  The irony (and the humor!) of her comment was not lost on me.

On that note, people have been asking me “Aren’t you a little young to be getting a new hip?” and “How long will that new hip last?”  My thoughts… how long does anything last?  What warranties do we have on a breast or an eye or a lung?

I’d rather focus on living life and finding some mischief!  I hope you will join me.